Thursday, January 1, 2015

I choose to be part of the solution.



As many as you know Sheila Turner and I have started a company called F.A.B. Women, which stands for females ascending boundaries. F.A.B. combines fitness and personal development but it is so much more than that…

F.A.B. is a MOVEMENT!

It's a movement about women changing the world for the better.
It's about helping to make the world a better place no matter what kind of contribution you can make --- big or small. 
It’s about waking up each day and saying to yourself, “Today I am gifted an opportunity. What can I do with this day to help myself, to help other people, and to help the world?”. 
It's about striving to be the best version of yourself each and every day.
It's about taking the high road, turning the other cheek, and stepping up to the plate when need be.
Most importantly, it’s about choosing, acting, and living from a place of love.

I am tired of seeing stories about children taking their own lives because life seems too unbearable, because they have not yet discovered their personal power, because they have not yet learned that that their life is a previous gift and they are significant simply because they are born.

Sometimes thinking about the tragedies of life is overwhelming BUT
I choose to be part of the solution.  Each and every day I choose to be a part of a movement that drives myself, and others toward contributing to a greater change in the world. I realize my contribution can be as simple as smiling at a stranger, or taking an extra moment to make a friendly phone call instead of a text, or it can be dedicating time to help a cause I feel strongly about.

We can no longer deny that we are all interconnected. Not only does science prove this connection, but it can be experienced any time you see a child laugh and you automatically smile or when someone else’s bad mood sours your own. Therefore it is our responsibility to tap into our individual greatness and make the most positive contribution to this world that we can.

All of life’s greatest accomplishments started with an idea. Someone thought big. Someone thought about something larger. They dared to let their minds dream and expand in scope.  They pushed beyond the boundary of everyday thought to create a whole new level of thinking.

Maybe it is time that we join these pioneers, these dream builders, these cultural creatives and we create the tomorrow that we dream of today.

With the coming NewYear, it is the perfect time to proactively start to be a part of the life’s solution. Even if that solution is simply to begin with your own thoughts and dreams and desire for contentment. If each individual takes some time and puts forth some effort to discover and work towards what truly makes them fulfilled on the soul level, not a superficial level, but on the soul level, then everyone would benefit and the world will change for the better.

Often it does not take grandiose acts to implement great change but it does takes consistent intentional effort. Small purposeful acts of kindness or meaningful periods of reflection are what creates profound sustainable change in individuals and therefore in the collective whole.

I urge you to take the time to think about what you want, what you really want for yourself, what you really want for those you love, and what you really want for the world.

Write those things down. Brainstorm. Don't hold anything back.

Take note of what excites you and begin with that. Start creating the change that you want to see in yourself and the world can only benefit. What ONE thing can you do today to take a step toward achieving your goal? It may be as simple as contemplating the idea of your greatness. It may be researching a new career or it may be calling a life coach. Start the process now. Don't push it off to an undefined tomorrow.

I would like to leave the world a better place by living the full width and breadth of my life.... what would you like to do?

Monday, November 17, 2014

Veggies Toot Toot

Usually I don't like to toot my own horn but today I am saying "Toot! Toot!"

I was asked to make a meal for my friend who is a vegetarian and I became inspired by a visit to the local vegetable market. I had already taught my sports psyche class followed by teaching boot camp so I didn't have too much time but I decided to see what delicious vegetarian dishes I could make in just one hours time!

I wanted to make a variety of tasty dishes as I wasn't sure what my friend and her husband would enjoy and I wanted to provide something they could take with them to work the next day. My entire meal plan centered around onions and olive oil! Yes, thats right, two onions and some fabulous Extra Virgin Olive Oil was the base for my dishes.

I ended up making Lentil Soup, Crustless Squash Quiche, Tomato Salad, Kale Chips and Roasted Brussel Sprouts. And let me not forget to mention the Banana Chocolate Chip Pecan Bread!


Lets start with one of my cold weather staples - the soup! I simply sauteed an entire onion with a little olive in my soup pot.

Since I already had the olive oil in my hand I decided to grab a baking sheet and drizzle olive oil on the sheet. I rinsed and drained some curly kale and flipped it in the olive oil. I sprinkled it with salt and mixed it all together on the baking sheet. It looked so good I decided to grab another baking sheet and repeat the process with Mushroom and Sage Infused Olive oil. I thought I would do my own little taste test. I threw the pans in the oven (350 degrees) and went back to my soup. FYI- Mushroom and Sage Olive oil is the bomb!

Now back to the soup-  I added a bag of rinsed organic lentils (I used Wegmans) and two cups of water. Next I threw in a handful of carrots and a few celery leaves. No celery leaves on hand? Just season with celery salt, regular sea salt, and pepper. Don't feel like chopping onions? Well then simply buy mirepoix mix in the veggie department of your supermarket. Cook for two hours. If the lentils begin to dry add some chicken broth to moisten. My mother would boil up macaroni noodles and add that to the soup which I loved as a kid.  We would complain about the soup color and then devour it!! (In my opinion adding pasta makes everything better.)

While the soup was cookin' I started chopping the squash for my delicious quiche. I doubled the recipe as I wanted to make sure I had some for my own family as this recipe is too yummy to give it all away.

I mixed 4 cups sliced green and yellow squash, 2 cups Bisquick, 1 cup chopped onions, 1 cup grated cheese (the recipe calls for parmesan cheese but I had an amazing old cheddar I shredded), 1 cup vegetable oil, 8 eggs slightly beaten, salt, pepper, and oregano in a big bowl. I then poured it into a greased 10 x 13 pan and cooked it at 350 degrees for about 40 minutes.


At this point I took the kale chips out and put the Brussel sprouts in. I cut the sprouts in half mixed them with olive oil and seasoned them with salt. Easy Peasy = so gooooood. Of course I had to sample the Kale chips as I feel its my duty to do before I provide anyone with a meal. As I munched away on the addictive chips I thought maybe I am providing too much food..... I'll keep the chips and have them as a whilst- cooking snack. What?! I need my sustenance!! ;)

Next, I quartered and salted 6 firm tomatoes, sliced about 1 cup of onions, threw it in a bowl and added olive oil and oregano. I mixed it all up and threw it in the fridge for the flavors to get to know each other. This salad is one of my favorites. I love to soak up the juice with bread. SOOOOO good. Its like a meal in and of itself.

Finally on to dessert/ breakfast. I took a box of banana bread mix but of course needed to shnaz it up a bit!  I added mini chocolate chips and crushed pecans to the recipe. Served with ice cream it makes a great dessert or served with coffee it makes a great breakfast. Its a two for one!!

One hour up and I feel so accomplished. I am soooo not a cook so if I can do it you can do it! Its veg-tastic, simple, and delicious.

Tuesday, March 18, 2014

If I Were Brave







Its been way too long since I have posted but many wonderful things have kept me busy.



My F.A.B Women Fitness business partner Sheila and I are in development of some new and exciting offerings to be coming down the line! As always we will be offering fitness infused with a little bit of personal development but we will be doing it even BIGGER and more FABULOUS than before!!!



In preparation for our new offerings I have been going through some old files and I found this video.  I love the music and hope the pictures inspire you to be brave, to be you, and to step into your inner fabulousness!!




Monday, December 9, 2013

ITS THAT TIME OF YEAR AGAIN! 
 TWAS THE NIGHT BEFORE CHRISTMAS... 
F.A.B Women Fitness Style!


Twas’ the night before Christmas and all through hood
 F.A.B ladies were smiling cause they were feeling so good.

Their stockings were thrown on the bed without care
Cause we all know those things really suck to wear.

The children were nestled all snug in their beds
While visions of iPods danced in their heads.
And I was in the kitchen, sipping a nightcap,
With the book 50 Shades resting in my lap.

When out of the blue there arose such a clatter
I pulled myself away from Christian Grey to see what was the matter!

When, what to my wondering eyes should appear,
But two F.AB ladies full of good cheer.
They were dancing along to music so lively and quick
I thought to myself, “I must join these chicks!”

On tight jeans! On dress skirts! Oh "I look like a Vixen!"
Cause working out and personal development they are a mixin’!

Tone your BODY, Focus your MIND, Enrich your SOUL
While having a blast, is the main goal.

Now I’m rocking it out… though it’s been quite awhile
But it don’t matter cause I shake it Gangnam style

I worked out with F.A.B, I learned quite a bit,
And I feel so much better after experiencing it.

It was getting quite late and the F.A.B girls had to go
Over the river and out into the snow

But I heard them exclaim as they drove out of site…

“Happy Holidays to all and to all a F.A.B night!”

www.fab-women.com

Monday, November 11, 2013


Time for SHOW – NOT TELL By Sheila Turner


Lately it seems as though every time I log into Facebook, Twitter, MSN, etc…I am bombarded with these “10 Things I Want My Daughter, Son, Teenager, Dog… to know posts. Sure, they’re nice and great and lovely and all, and I want the same for my kids, but with each new post, I become increasingly annoyed.

Don’t get me wrong, I do want my daughter to know that she is loved no matter what and that life isn’t always fair. I want her to grow into a beautiful, caring, self-respecting woman just like every parent wants for their child. And I want my teenage son to respect girls and to know that you get out of life what you give to it. As for my dog – I actually don’t have a dog and haven’t seen a post for dogs, but I have a funny feeling one will be hitting the social media scene any day now.

But I have to be honest here. While these posts, whether they’re 10 things, 25 things, or a million things, have all the right intentions and address some pretty important life-lessons, they miss the mark big time on what WE as parents and adults are actually DOING to SHOW our kids that these life-lessons are real and take work, not just words.

Sure, it’s easy to tell someone that they are beautiful and loved no matter what. We can say it over and over and over again. We can print it out, frame it and hang it on our walls, but are we living that way ourselves? Do we TELL our children one thing yet SHOW them the opposite? Do we criticize our bodies and point out flaws in ourselves and others? Are we truly SHOWING them how to be honest, faithful and trustworthy? And when we tell our children that we want them to be strong and healthy, are we SHOWING them the same or are we teaching them by the, “Do as I say, not as I do” method?

I used to think these posts were great but then realized that they never address the fundamental principle of showing by example. We tell our children to be honest, faithful, generous, loving and forgiving. We tell them to love themselves, respect others, and give to those in need, but do we SHOW them how? If we’re not living what we’re preaching, then our words are just words - and our children will see right through those words and learn to deal with life’s challenges the way they SEE us handling them.

We live in a land of excuses and avoid doing the very things we want our children to do. We blame our parents, our upbringing, our challenges, and tell our kids that we are the way we are because of our past. We want them so desperately to NOT be insecure and critical, and out of shape, and stressed out all the time that we resort to lists telling them we want them to live differently. But by NOT SHOWING them how we want them to live, we are simply begging them to be different and expecting them to do so with no role models, no tools and no clue.

So I challenge you to make that generic “10 Things I Want My (Son/Daughter, etc) to Know” list and change it to your very own “10 Things I Am Doing to SHOW My (Son/Daughter) to Know” list. Sit down, take some time, and write out exactly how you’re going to SHOW your child how it’s done.


SHOW how to give to the community.
SHOW how important it is to be healthy.
SHOW how to love yourself and your body.
SHOW how to respect others.
SHOW how to handle a challenge with a level-head.
SHOW how mistakes can become opportunities.
SHOW how to stand up for what you believe in.
SHOW how education is essential in your daily life.
SHOW how you strive to become better every day.
SHOW how you value yourself, your purpose and your dreams.

More showing and less telling makes for a list worth framing!

Monday, September 9, 2013

Be Impeccable With Your Word


There is a book by Don Miguel Ruiz called the Four Agreements. These agreements act as guideposts for a happy fulfilled life. I thought I would share the first agreement with you as I believe in it wholeheartedly.

BE IMPECCABLE WITH YOUR WORD:
 Speak with integrity. Say only what you mean. Avoid using the word to speak against yourself or to gossip about others. Use the power of your word in the direction of truth and love.

Imagine being so clear in your thoughts that you are able to articulate exactly what you want to say with confidence. Now imagine that the words coming from your mouth are like darts whirling toward the person you are talking to and that those words hit the target. Your words have a direct impact on everyone you meet so it is extremely important to choose your words wisely.


Say out loud the following words: hurt, pain, anger, hate. 

How did that make you feel?

Now say out loud the following words: love, joy, giggles, tomato. 

How did THAT make you feel?

Hopefully you felt the difference. There is an energy around every word you say and every thought you think.


If your mind only focuses on supportive and loving thoughts about yourself and others there is much more room for clarity and positive energy abounds. It will be much easier to stay true to your self and communicate that truth. 


You can easily follow your internal compass when your mind and mouth are not bogged down by what ifs, should of's, and verbal pooh!


So I challenge you to become aware of how you talk to yourself and others. As they say "If you can't say something nice, don't say it at all." And I say "If you can't THINK something nice don't think it at all." Its a waste of valuable mind space!